designated.
" There is no  d e s i g n a t e d  time
for anything in your life
You don’t have to
have your first kiss at any  c e r t a i n time
you don’t have to
get married in your 20′s
and you don’t have to do anything
just because other people think it’s  b e s t 
In fact
you will be much better off
if you just do what your  h e a r t  says
The day you stop  c a r i n g
what other people think
is the day
their  o p i n i o n s  don’t  m e a n  anything
because you’re not there
to give them  w e i g h t ."
- Brianna Wiest, 10 Things I Wish I Could Have Told Myself 5 Years Ago
(Credits to evanescen-t)